Abortion is not your only option, even if finances feel limited right now. Parenting and adoption are also possible, and there are many programs and organizations in New Mexico designed to help women through pregnancy and beyond.
Want more information on the resources available to you? Schedule an appointment with Oasis Women’s Services to receive no-cost pregnancy services and learn about your options.
Your Situation Can Change
Right now, money may feel like the biggest factor in your pregnancy decision. But it’s important to consider not only your current circumstances but also your long-term goals and dreams. Where do you see yourself in five years? Would you want parenting, adoption, or abortion to be part of your story?
Financial situations often improve over time with new opportunities, job training, or education. It’s wise to consider how each choice may shape your future, not just your today.
The Costs of Adoption and Parenting
Adoption Costs
Adoption is often the most affordable option because the adoptive family typically covers any uncovered medical expenses, such as hospital and lab bills. They also cover adoption legal fees. In some cases, they may provide assistance with living expenses during your pregnancy.
While adoption can be emotionally difficult, many women find comfort in knowing their child is being raised by a qualified family of their choice and that they helped a family grow.
Parenting Costs
Parenting requires a long-term commitment and is definitely the most expensive option. However, many programs in New Mexico exist to support mothers and families. Depending on your income, you may qualify for:
- Medicaid for prenatal, delivery, and pediatric healthcare costs.
- WIC (Women, Infants, and Children Program) which provides healthy food, nutrition education, and breastfeeding support. It can also cover the cost of formula.
- SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program) to help with grocery expenses.
- TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families) provides cash assistance and job training support.
- Local community organizations, such as Oasis Women’s Services, offer baby supplies such as diapers, wipes, clothing, and supplies.
These resources can help relieve some of the financial pressures of parenting and give you the support you need to make parenting possible.
The Choice Is Yours
Only you can decide which option is best for you. If money didn’t matter, what would your heart choose?
You deserve to make an informed decision by knowing all the resources available to you. Schedule an appointment with Oasis Women’s Services for no-cost, confidential support and early pregnancy services.
Frequently Asked Questions on this Topic
I’m not sure how to apply for Medicaid or WIC. Can someone help me?
Yes, visit Oasis Women’s Services for more information on how to apply. We have experience helping women get the support they need.
How do I know if I am eligible for government programs?
We can talk about the income requirements during your visit. Your last W-2 form is a good reference point for your yearly income if you plan to continue in the same job.
What if I have more questions about adoption?
While Oasis Women’s Services is not an adoption agency, we can refer you to reputable agencies in our area that can provide more specific details on the process.